Living Together in Alabama? 3 Ways You Might Already Be Legally Married!

What Is Common-Law Marriage?

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States That Recognize It (2024)

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Alabama’s Quirky Rules

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Proving Common-Law Marriage

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Rights & Risks

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How to ‘Opt Out’

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Prenups & Common-Law Marriage

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